Stage 1 is designed to introduce the philosophy and strategic purpose of the program along with a quick grasp of self-awareness and immediate actions to stabilize the marriage and emotions in the midst of the crisis.

Here's what you'll learn in the key modules:

The Leadership MindShift

• Understand the difference between reacting emotionally and leading strategically.
• Shift from seeing marriage as a problem to solve to an opportunity to lead and influence.
• Recognize the impact of Fear, Arrogance, Criticism, Neglect, and Incompetence on your relationship.

Your First 5 Moves

• Quick actions to immediately stabilize communication and reduce conflict.
• Simple scripts to start meaningful conversations without defensiveness.
• Techniques to de-escalate tension and create a foundation of trust.

Setting a Vision for Your Marriage

• Define what a thriving marriage looks like for you and your wife.
• Clarify your core values and how they align with your marriage.
• Begin creating a "Marriage Leadership Mission Statement."

Stage 2 presents the 5 levels of the marriage pyramid, which, when achieved, result in the highest level of peace, enjoyment, and mastery imaginable in the marriage, while also addressing the common pitfalls most marriages fall victim to.

Here's what you'll learn in the key modules:

The Pyramid of Connection

• Explore the 5 levels of the marriage pyramid: foundational trust, emotional intimacy, physical connection, shared purpose, and visionary legacy.
• Identify gaps and opportunities for deeper connection.
• Learn actionable steps to rebuild friendship and trust.

The Power of Listening and Understanding

• Master the art of empathetic listening.
• Strategies to understand your wife’s needs and communicate yours effectively.
• Overcome common communication barriers with finesse.

The Leader’s Toolkit for Conflict Resolution

• Proven methods to handle disagreements with confidence and clarity.
• How to turn conflict into a pathway for growth and understanding.
• Techniques for managing your emotional triggers.

Adventuring Together

• Reignite excitement and passion by rediscovering shared goals and interests.
• Create a plan for regular, intentional quality time.
• Learn how to plan “adventures” that enhance connection and trust.

Stage 3 provides the crucial infrastructure and values system for becoming empowered and confident to handle any relational issue that arises.

Here's what you'll learn in the key modules:

The Marriage as an Organization

• See your marriage through the lens of an enterprise with shared goals and roles.
• Identify and align on your "organizational vision" as a couple.
• Establish a partnership based on respect, collaboration, and shared leadership.

The Leadership Framework for Marriage

• Develop a strategic plan for your marriage, including long-term goals and milestones.
• Learn how to conduct "relationship check-ins" to measure progress and address issues.
• Create systems for regular communication and decision-making.

Legacy and Impact

• Define what legacy means for your marriage and family.
• Explore ways to strengthen your family’s long-term stability and influence.
• Create a roadmap for passing down values, traditions, and lessons to future generations.

Sustaining Growth

• Build a resilient marriage that adapts to life’s changes.
• Learn how to keep the relationship fresh, exciting, and fulfilling over the years.
• Strategies for ongoing personal and relational growth.

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I help men move from struggling to understand their wives, marital crises, or the brink of divorce—often causing stress in the home, disengagement, or distractions at work—to leveraging their already-proven success skills through a unique leadership strategy.

This approach helps you confidently and privately achieve satisfaction, renewed love, restored friendship, and joyful sex—all without feeling lost, confused, or overwhelmed when challenges arise.

With over 35 years of marriage to my incredible wife, Ollie, and decades of coaching, research, and application, I’ve developed a unique framework that integrates:

• Leadership and business principles for relational success.
• Strategies tailored for high-performing men with demanding careers.
• A deep understanding of the challenges and pressures you face as a highly successful individual.

The result? A stable, peaceful, and mature marriage that powerfully impacts your family legacy and strengthens your contribution to the world.